News from Kol Ami

on Wednesday, 28 January 2015.

BY PETER DIAMANT

There are as many reasons why the participants in our class did not have a Bar or Bat Mitzvah as there are members in the group. A few of us have considerable knowledge of our traditions and customs and others very little. Each of us walked in with trepidation and even a certain amount of guilt, that as adults we should know a lot more than we do. However, we have quickly learned that others in the group are exactly in the same position. As a result, the atmosphere is incredibly supportive and relaxed. No question is too simple, no gap in our knowledge too embarrassing. Rabbi Streiffer and Shoshi's lecture plan is interesting and as always, each lecture very well prepared. Some of the topics we are covering are: 'Jewish Texts – People of What Book?' where we are learning about the Torah, Haftarah, Talmud and other "books". Future units cover 'Reform Jewish Choices',' Taking the Festivals to the Next Level', The Siddur and more. Each class is capped off with a Hebrew lesson. As is typical of all learning experiences at Kol Ami, the atmosphere is informal, inviting a lot of questions. We are not even half way through the course but we are already beginning to see the benefits. We have a better understanding of the historical context of each topic, are better able to 'wrap our heads' around the reasons behind certain traditions or teachings. Most importantly, we are beginning to feel more comfortable – in the synagogue, at services, with our own beliefs, our own Judaism. So will we see a few Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvahs next year? Stay tuned... And here comes the usual regret – I wish we had a class like this a few decades ago. Well, better late than ever.