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a message from the social action committee
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on Sunday, 25 October 2015.
TIKKUN OLAMKol Ami.....
Helping to repair the world
.....one Mitzvah at a time
OUT OF THE COLD PROGRAM 2015/16
Last year Kol Ami’s amazing efforts made a dramatic difference in the lives of the Out of The Cold "Guests" on Wednesday nights at Har Zion. This is now the fourth year that Kol Ami has officially partnered with Har Zion for this life altering mitzvah.
This year the program, commencing November 25th, which runs every Wednesday through to January 13th 2016, is faced with a severe and devastating government budget cut. In fact, in the absolutely necessary areas of toiletries, underwear, long-johns, winter-proof gloves, and clothing, the government budget has been cut to ZERO.
The program needs our help now more than ever. Let’s talk frankly here; homeless guests rely on receiving a weekly pair of underwear and socks to change. It’s all they have. If they don’t have winter boots and gloves they get frostbite often resulting in amputated fingers and toes. Sadly, I’m witness to this horror.
This is what is URGENTLY NEEDED:
- Winter proof gloves
- New Long underwear
- New ladies and men’s underwear sizes M-3XL
- Warm socks
- Deodorant dollar store size travel size
- Lip balm
- Razors and shaving cream dollar store size travel size
- Jeans
- Winter coats
- Winter boots
- Sweat shirts
If you are able to reach out and help the homeless, the disadvantaged, the marginalized by donating any of these items or if you prefer to make a donation to Social Action Out Of The Cold program, you will also help someone to survive the dismal existence of street life. Grateful thanks from the Out of The Cold (OOTC) program to everyone at Kol Ami who already made a donation at the Yom Kippur appeal this year to OOTC.
You can also actively participate by volunteering on a Wednesday at Har Zion, either to help set up in the afternoon, serve meals at 5:00pm or assist guests in finding suitable clothing and toiletry necessities please visit www.templeharzion.com to fill in a volunteer registration form. Mandatory training for all volunteers will take place on Wednesday evening November 18th at Temple Har Zion at 7:30pm. You can also participate by becoming one of Miriam Amon’s cooks, when we prepare our annual OOTC dinner in December.
By getting involved in OOTC, it truly gives you a warm feel good sensation, knowing that you have actively helped the most fragile and needy in our community.
For more information about the Out of the Cold program, or to hear about Kol Ami’s vibrant welcoming Social Action group and how you can get involved in many of the upcoming humanitarian initiatives, please contact Marleine Kay at marleine@rogers.com or 905-763-1136
Because we are Kol Ami – together we CAN make a difference
a message from the president
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on Sunday, 25 October 2015.
Now that we have made it through the High Holy Days and are in the month of Heshvan, where thankfully there are no holidays at all, the Board has had some time to reflect on how our High Holy Day services served our Kol Ami community.
The feedback received from our High Holy Days committee, as well as feedback from many of our members, covers over 30 items which will be sent to committee for review and to make recommendations on each of the suggestions provided. Our hope is that we can continue to make our High Holy Day services the best in the GTA and provide services that appeal to both members and guests.
After careful consideration at our Board meeting on Monday October 19th, the Board voted to search for a new Cantorial Soloist for next year and a search committee will be struck in the next few weeks to begin the process. Our aim is to hire someone by the spring so that they have adequate time to rehearse with our choir. On behalf of the Board, I would like to thank Rachelle for all she has done for Kol Ami over the past two years as she has shared her beautiful voice with us.
As a point of clarification, please note that Julie Sermer will continue to be our Cantorial Soloist for B’nai Mitzvah during 2015-16.
L’shalom
Mark
d'var torah for the second day of rosh hashanah
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on Friday, 02 October 2015.
BY ALEX SCHOIJETT
NOTE: This D'var Torah was written and delivered by Kol Ami member Alex Schoijett on the second day of Rosh Hashanah 5776.
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Every Saturday, we read from the Siddur a verse that always resonated in me. It says:
In every land and in every age
Your children imagined you in separate ways,
And yet, O God, you are One, unifier of humanity.
Today is not Saturday but Rosh Hashana, our Jewish New Year, which marks the beginning of the Aseret Yemei Tshuva (the 10 days of introspection leading to Yom Kippur) and the Creation of the World.
In this RH, I want to explore some of the stories that different people used to explain how their known world came to be, because those stories largely represent how they imagined the divine. These creation stories are also called "Cosmogonies" and there are literally hundreds of them. They have been mostly transmitted orally from generation to generation and have been nurturing the creeds and behaviours of all civilizations. The narrative of Bereshit in our Torah is probably the one we are most familiar with, and its importance to Western civilization and obviously monotheism cannot be denied. And there is also the scientific Cosmogony which, for the last few centuries, seems to be dead set on replacing all the others.
Today, we will listen to a few of those narratives but we won’t dive into their possible deeper meanings; otherwise we’ll have to deal with the anger of the ducks from the pond on Centre St., who are eagerly awaiting our Tashlich breadcrumbs.
We will listen to those stories as they were told in the past: around a fire. If we pay attention, we’ll hear certain themes repeating, like Water, Chaos, Heroes, Dualism and creation Out of Nothing. Try to listen for those themes as we go by – and also, ask yourself the following questions:
- How many deities are involved the creation? One? Many?
- Was the creation done by “The” Supreme Being of the cosmogony or by a helper?
- What behaviours did the creators exhibit?
- Was the creation about specifically named individuals or about groups of nameless people?
- Are women mentioned? If so, in which context?
To allow you to do all that, let me set the stage first.
Imagine we are sitting in a circle around a fire among the dwellers of a village surrounded by a jungle. The musicians are drumming up a slow rhythm. It is the new moon and the oldest man of the village will speak to us tonight. A woman throws a log into the fire and its flames climb up to the dark sky, like if it were trying to illuminate it. Our eyes follow the flames and we marvel at the way the Milky Way shines tonight. It is the new moon and that makes this night wonderful indeed. The old man sits there, with his eyes closed.
The drums stop. The old man opens his eyes and starts talking.
Speaking with long pauses and with a grave voice that shows at once authority and knowledge, he tells us of the time when he was young and strong, the time when he received these truths from the oldest person in his village. Then, he tells us the story that explains how everything that we see around us came to be. The story that will explains the old rivers, the mountains, the animals, and finally, ourselves.
He is teaching us the Cosmogony of the Maya.
Sorry, I forgot to tell you...Our village is in Central America, somewhere in an area that stretches through Mexico, Guatemala and Belize. The year is 803 CE and we are sitting with people from one of the most sophisticated civilizations in the world. The astronomers who created the extremely accurate calendar came from a city not far from here, and the engineers who erected the massive palaces and pyramids you can see nearby are also neighbours.
The old man says that in the beginning all was stillness, silence, and water. There was no light, no land, no plants, no animals, and no people. Six deities, covered in green and blue feathers, rested in the waters. These deities helped the god Hurakán create the Earth. To separate the Sky from the Earth they planted a tall ceiba tree, making space for all life. The roots of the tree penetrated deep into the Underworld, the trunk was on the surface of the land, and the branches reached up to the Upper-world.
The plants were created next to live on the Earth. And then the animals. But the animals did not speak and could not worship the gods so they decided to create human beings from mud.
These first mud humans had no souls and thus could not worship, so the gods destroyed them in a great flood. The gods tried again and created humans from wood. But the wooden people could not worship either, and the gods destroyed them. Those that survived became the monkeys we see in the trees.
The sky and Earth now existed, but there was no Sun and no Moon. Hun Hunahpu, the father of the hero twins had been killed by the Lords of Xibalbá, the Underworld. The hero twins became great ball players, and to bring their Father back to life, challenged the Lords of the Underworld to a game in Xibalbá. Using great skill and cunning, the twins won the ball game, and this allowed their slain father to come back to life as the Maize God.
The Hero Twins climbed back up from the Underworld into the sky, becoming the Sun and the Moon. Now that the Sun and Moon were in the sky and illuminated the Earth, the deities created the final form of human beings using white and yellow corn. Corn is the precious substance that ultimately succeeds in producing true and enduring humans.
And so it was.
The fire is dim now and everyone around it is silent. Those who heard the story for the first time look fascinated. Those who heard it before look thoughtful, as if trying to extract new meanings from it.
A woman throws a log into the fire and its flames climb up to the dark sky, like trying to illuminate it.
We are now half way around the planet, sitting in an arid part of ancient China. The date is 147 BCE and when the old man speaks, he tells us that when Heaven and Earth were yet unformed, all was ascending and flying, diving and delving. And then, the Grand Inception produced the Nebulous Void.
The Nebulous Void produced space and time which in turn produced the original qi. The qi was split in two. The part of the qi that was pure and bright spread out to form Heaven; the other part was heavy and turbid and congealed to form Earth. Heaven was completed first; Earth was fixed afterward. The conjoined essences of Heaven and Earth produced yin and yang.
The essences of yin and yang caused the four seasons. The scattered essences of the four seasons created the myriad things. The hot qi of accumulated yang produced fire; the essence of fiery qi became the sun. The cold qi of accumulated yin produced water; the essence of watery qi became the moon.
The overflowing qi of the essences of the sun and the moon made the stars and planets. To Heaven belong the sun, moon, stars, and planets; to Earth belong waters and floods, dust and soil.
And so it was.
The fire is dim now and everyone around it is silent. Those who heard the story for the first time look fascinated. Those who heard it before look thoughtful, as if trying to extract new meanings from it.
A woman throws a log into the fire and its flames climb up to the dark sky, like trying to illuminate it.
We are now sitting around a camp fire near the old city of Babylon. The year is 851 BCE and the old man is telling us a story about the two primeval gods: Apsû, the male fresh waters and Tiamat, the female salt waters.
From their union come Ea and his brothers, and they all reside in Tiamat's vast body. They make too much noise and Apsû wants to kill them all – but Tiamat warns her son Ea, who is the most powerful of the younger gods. Ea uses his magic to put Apsû into a deep sleep and then kills him.
Thus, Ea becomes the chief god. With his consort Damkina, he has a son, Marduk, who is even greater than Ea himself.
Marduk is given wind to play with and he uses the wind to make dust storms and tornadoes. This disrupts Tiamat's body and causes the gods still residing inside her to be unable to sleep.
The gods persuade Tiamat to take revenge for the death of her husband, Apsû. Her power grows, and some of the gods join her. So Tiamat creates 11 monsters to help her win the battle and elevates Kingu, her new husband, to Supreme Dominion. A great battle is about to start.
Marduk offers to save the other gods if he is appointed their permanent leader. When the gods agree to his conditions, Marduk challenges Tiamat to a combat.
They fight, and Marduk kills Tiamat. He then rips her corpse into two halves, and fashions with them the earth and the skies. Marduk then creates the calendar, organizes the planets and stars, and gives the laws to the moon, the sun, and the weather.
The gods who had pledged their allegiance to Tiamat are initially forced into labor to service the gods who sided with Marduk. But they are freed from these labors when Marduk destroys Kingu, Tiamat's husband, and uses his blood to create humankind to do the work for the gods.
And so it was.
The fire is dim now and everyone around it is silent. Those who heard the story for the first time look fascinated. Those who heard it before look thoughtful, as if trying to extract new meanings from it.
A woman throws a log into the fire and its flames climb up to the dark sky, like trying to illuminate it.
We are now in a small town close to Athens in Greece. The year is 413 BCE. The old man starts his story telling us that an amorphous being called Kaos, engendered Uranos (the Sky) and Gaia (the Earth).
Uranos and Gaia give birth to the first 12 Titans, 6 male and 6 female. The youngest of them, Cronos waits until his father comes to lay with his mother, and then cuts his manhood with a sickle. He then mates with his sister Rhea and has many children. But he is afraid that his children will try to kill him, as he did with his father, so he eats them alive as soon as they are born.
Rhea hides her last child, Zeus, from Cronos. When Zeus grows up, he gives Cronos a powerful drink that causes his father to vomit all his brothers and sisters back into the world.
Zeus then fights Cronos and the other Titans and throws them all into Tartarus. Zeus keeps the reign of Heavens for himself, and gives his brother Poseidon the seas and his other brother Hades the underworld.
Men are created so they can praise the gods but Zeus destroys humanity several times. One of those creations is done by Prometheus, a Titan who did not side with Cronos in the battle against Zeus.
Prometheus steals from the gods the knowledge of fire and agriculture and gives them to men. In revenge, Zeus asks the god Hephaistos to forge the first woman, Pandora and gives her as a present to Prometheus’ brother, along with a famous jar that came to be known as Pandora's Box. When Pandora opens the jar, all the evil that Zeus had put inside is spread throughout humanity. But not all is lost, because the last thing to come out of the jar is hope.
Zeus and other the gods then mate with the humans and from those unions came the demi-gods who lived among them. From these humans came poets like Hesiod and Homer who put all these stories on paper for men to read. And 23 centuries later, another human called Rick Riordan created the Percy Jackson books that made these stories even more accessible to humanity.
And so it was.
The fire is dim now and everyone around it is silent. Those who heard the story for the first time look fascinated. Those who heard it before look thoughtful, as if trying to extract new meanings from it.
A woman throws a log into the fire and its flames climb up to the dark sky, like trying to illuminate it.
We are now listening to a different story. A story in which there is only one God. This God has no origin and no end, is totally ascetic, and is the one who creates the Universe and all that it contains, and though acting tough many times, always shows love and compassion for its creatures. This is the way the Jewish children have seen God. This is our narrative of creation, the one that we are going to read today. It is deceptively short: in just 31 verses, the Bible tells us the story of the first six days of the Universe, when God created light, planets, stars, animals and finally the first humans, male and female.
From my point of view, the characteristics of this story make it stand above the others. However, I do not intent to judge the Bible’s story against the other stories of Creation but rather focus on a more complex problem: its conflicts with Science. A conflict that starts in those very first 31 verses: According to Science, it took the world more than 15-billion years to reach the state that the Torah says was reached in 6 days.
I would not be surprised if someone said: “Hey, I don't care about the Greek Cronos eating his children for breakfast or if the hero twins playing ball with the lords of the underworld are actually a cosmic representation of the motion of the planets in the Maya calendar. Those stories have zero impact on how I live my life. I want to live my life based on values – like peace and justice and compassion and love and sanctity of life. I’ve been taught that those values are core to Judaism and that all can be derived from the words of the Torah. I’m Jewish and I am sitting here today, in this RH service, because I do care about my Jewish roots. But I want my beliefs to be built on solid grounds. And if I find such big contradictions right at the very first words of the Torah, I have to ask what else could be wrong and whether ultimately, I can base my life on its teachings...”
Not surprisingly, two extreme positions have emerged over the years.
On the one hand we have those who claim that science may be good but that it destroy faith in the Divine and thus over time it will create a society devoid of values where youth and old wander aimlessly – without the moral compass needed to guide them.
On the other hand we have the group that claims that religion blinds the mind and dulls the intellect, has been responsible over the centuries for countless deaths and has slowed down the progress of humanity in general.
And both camps have been stiff-necked. Science ignoring the possibility of a larger force at play and Religion burning the books that contradicted it and sometimes even the writers of those books too.
The reality is that this is not as simple as A is right and B is wrong. We are indeed sitting around a fire in the middle of the night, where two old men are talking at once and telling us two seemingly different stories. Our challenge is to try to listen to both and find from them the truths that can guide our lives.
Maimonides, who lived in the 12th century CE put it in rather simple terms: when Torah and Science seem to contradict each other, it is not because one is right and the other is wrong. It is because we do not understand either of them in full. And he went further, saying that if you really want to understand God, you should study the way the Nature works. That, by the way, is the purview of Science!
Science is based on a sequence of observation, theory formulation and experimental verification. The method works and there is no doubt about its results. It has shown a Universe of majestic beauty. But what about Religion’s methods? Can they be used to support science in its quest for truth? I’ll let you answer that question after you hear this story:
Approximately 800 years ago, a famous Kabbalist called Nachmanides, lived in Barcelona, Spain. Through a painstaking analysis of the first 31 verses of Genesis he reached amazing conclusions.
“The initial creation produced an entity so thin that it had no substance to it. It was the only physical creation ever to occur and was all concentrated within the speck of space that was the entire universe just following its creation. As the universe expanded from the size of that initial minuscule space, the primordial, substance-less substance changed into matter as we know it. Biblical time, he continued, starts (grabs hold, in his words) with the appearance of matter.”
Almost word by word, his quote could have been taken from a modern text in quantum mechanics. Such text will tell you that a few instants after the Big Bang, energy coalesced into matter, which then made it possible for time to exist. Nachmanides did not arrive at those conclusions through science: Forget about Einstein...Not even Newton or Galileo had been born in his day! He did it through a religious interpretation of the text. And he did that centuries before the Hubble telescope and the gigantic particle accelerators we have today could be used to test his theories. It was his faith in the divine that brought him closer to the truth of Nature.
Religion can indeed assist Science in the search for those truths.
But…Can it work the other way around? Professor Gerald Schroedder, who has a PhD in Physics from MIT, believes so. Using only published research data as well as the Talmud and the work of some kabbalists, he argued that the six days of Genesis that we are about to read are indeed 24-hour days, and that they truly represent the 15-billion years of cosmological evolution that scientists are observing. In essence, that there’s no contradiction, only lack of understanding.
The key, he explains, is that these are not planet Earth’s days but days in the context of the totality of the universe. You need to account for the fact that because of the high gravitational pull of a concentrated universe the clock would tick slower, but then the chips seem to fall into place. How much slower would time go by? Well, if you follow his math, the slowdown is by a factor of 1012, i.e. a million-million, which is, surprisingly, the ratio of 15-billion years to 6 days.
It gets better. He explains that the Bible rushes through Creation because it wants to focus on the history of humanity, and to do that, it compresses the timeline of the story. But the compression is not arbitrary. Using the laws of physics, quantum mechanics, and relativity, Prof. Schroeder shows a precise logarithmic scale for time, based on universal constants and tuned to the temperature of quantum congealment (i.e. at the time of the BB) and the temperature of its remnant, which we can measure today in the black of space. This scale aligns the timing of the events from theories of physics and the findings of paleontology to the events told in the 6 days of Genesis with a precision that can only produce awe.
His work does not provide us with absolute certainty on a scientific foundation for the story of Genesis. However, like Nachmanides’ story that showed us the possibility of Religion assisting Science in its search for truth, his work shows us the possibility of Science assisting Religion it the same endeavor.
In 1994, Prof. S. Weinberg wrote for Scientific American that “Life in the Universe would be impossible if any of several physical quantities had slightly different values.” One of these quantities is the energy of the Universe at the time of the BB. If this energy had been different to what it was by just one part in 10120 (i.e. a one followed by 120 zeros) then there would be no life anywhere in the Universe.
This leads to the contemplation of a Universe tuned for life from its inception, which talks about creation for a purpose. And here, Religion agrees with Physics. There is a purpose. And there are many more areas of agreement. As much as Cosmology has come to agree that there was a beginning, just like Gen 1:1 says, so has Biology discovered that life on Earth started shortly after the appearance of liquid water, just like verses 9-12 say; and that 3-billion years later, animal life exploded in a burst of aquatic organisms holding all the phyla that are alive today, just like verses 20-21 say.
So, to those who fear about building their moral values on shaky grounds, we can say, “Don’t worry. That is not the case. The ground is much more solid than we thought. Keep exploring, keep learning. You can indeed use the Torah to base your life.”
Judaism teaches us that life is precious and that it was given to us by a Creator through the laws of Nature enshrined in the first 31 verses of Genesis.
Judaism also teaches us that our lives have a purpose and that God gave us the capacity to discover that purpose and the free will to act on it.
The question to us is, how will we choose to act this coming year?
Will we be able to open our eyes to the marvels of Nature and to the way it is braided with the words of Torah?
Will we be able to act accordingly?
I truly wish so.
May this RH be one in which the proverbial woman of our stories once again throws a log into our fires so its flames raise up to illuminate our paths.
May the light so created be used to dig deeper and thus increase our wisdom, our understanding, and our knowledge.
May this 5776 be a year in which we increase our engagement with the study of our Torah and in performing the good deeds that can be elucidated from its words.
May this be the year that bring us closer to the certainty that Nature and the Creator are One.
And may this be a year when we can and live our lives in Shalom, in peace and completeness.
Shana tova umetuka.
a message from the president
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on Thursday, 01 October 2015.
Shana tova. On behalf of the Board of Directors, it is my pleasure to welcome our congregants, their families and all of our guests to Kol Ami.
We have come together as a community to celebrate the New Year and look to the synagogue to help us in our spiritual journey through the High Holy Days. All of us reflecting on the past year and contemplating the year ahead. So I thought perhaps it would be appropriate to talk about where Kol Ami has been in the past year and review the outlook for next year.
5775 was a year that saw the leadership and staff at Kol Ami incorporate the ideas of Relational Judaism in our work. While we are just at the beginning of the process and certainly there have been bumps in the road, we are well on our way and continue to work to incorporate these ideas into everything we do. Unfortunately, we have continued to struggle with our membership numbers. However, I am so encouraged by the positive feedback I receive when talking to people who have been exposed to Kol Ami for the first time. Much of this positive feedback is a result of the welcome our members have extended as they have gone out of their way to embrace newcomers and make them feel at home.
The volunteer leadership of Kol Ami, supported by our professional staff have been hard at work for a few months working on our plans and goals for the next year. As President, I feel truly fortunate to have such an incredible group of people gathered around our Board table and in the few meetings we have had so far I can tell you that there is a real passion, drive and sense of purpose present.
Our focus as a Board is in four areas:
1) First, continuing the work we began last year in building relationships between members and expanding this effort to those outside of these walls.
2) Second, reviewing and reimagining our current dues model.
3) Third, improving our fundraising efforts.
4) And fourth, expanding our volunteer engagement.
In the area of building relationships, we know from the successful work done by people like Dr. Ron Wolfson, author of the book Relational Judaism, that people define their connection to a synagogue by the quality of the relationships they have with other members and with clergy and staff. We see evidence of this here at Kol Ami, for example, in our Adult B’nai Mitzvah class where 10 hardworking members have come together for a 2 year program to become B’nai Mitzvah... and in the process have built very close relationships with each other that have greatly strengthened their connection to our shul. It is not by chance that our programming is implemented only after first asking the question “How can we make this relational?” We are also seeing this in our monthly Torah and Sushi program and soon we will see it in our Chai Mitzvah program... and I know the Rabbi is working hard to find ways of making relationship building a component of all of our programming at Kol Ami.
But it is simply not enough to develop relationships between our members; we must reach out and begin the process of developing those relationships with non-members and with those who don’t even know about our synagogue. During the early part of summer, Rabbi Streiffer and I met with Paul Golin from Big Tent Judaism, a group that is dedicated to helping synagogues learn best practices of outreach and what they term “public space Judaism”. Rabbi Streiffer has enrolled in the Professional Affiliates program and I am part of the Ambassadors Program for volunteer leaders. It is our hope that over the next year we will be able to roll out programs that allow us to share what we love about Kol Ami to the wider community.
On the issue Dues Models, our history in North America has seen a variety of ways that Synagogues collect money in order to fund themselves. From selling seats in the early 1900’s to Annual Dues as a percentage of income, to flat rate dues, there have been many models that have been used. Today as the financial challenges are greater than ever, ideas are needed to help fund our organization and to do so in a way that appeals to members who have so many options when considering how they can fulfil their religious needs. We also need to appeal to those that have not been satisfied with any of the current models and have chosen to not participate at all. In addition, we know that our current process for working with those members who require financial support is not ideal.
Over the next 18 months, Barry Stein and I will be leading the work on this subject by participating in the URJ’s Community of Practice as it relates to dues. This is an intensive 18 month program that with your help will redefine how we approach our funding model in the years ahead. There will be much more on this topic and how our members can participate in the coming months as the program will kick off at the URJ Biennial which takes place this November.
Looking back at history of Kol Ami, a significant portion of our revenue came from fundraising, be that bingo , galas, or general donations. In recent years our fundraising efforts have fallen dramatically and we are now exploring ways to restore this important funding source. The Board, with approval of our Finance committee, has hired a fundraising consulting firm to help us understand the current fundraising landscape and to build an appropriate strategy to ensure we achieve our short and long term goals. Part of the outcome of this work will be to help us clearly define the story that makes all of us want to be members here so that we can share it with potential donors and potential new members as they consider Kol Ami for themselves and their families. Our work will begin as soon as the High Holidays are over and will give all of our members the opportunity to participate by sharing their thoughts on Kol Ami. We are very much looking forward to your feedback and ideas.
Several weeks ago, I had the pleasure of joining Rabbi Streiffer and a number of Kol Ami members as we attended Shabbat morning services at the cottage of one of our major financial supporters, Leslie and Anna Dan. That morning the Rabbi gave his D’Var Torah on Parsha D’Varim, D’Varim he explained means “Words” but it also means “Deads” or “Actions”. In fact, the basic unit of Jewish life is defined by actions....the Mitzvot. He concluded by saying that “The actions we take in prayer, study, mourning and celebration and in building relationships help build our community”. I would add one more action that helps build our community and that is the action of volunteering. We at Kol Ami have a dedicated group of volunteers who tirelessly work for the betterment of our synagogue community. Unfortunately this group is relatively small given the amount of programming we put on for a synagogue of our size and one of my goals to help expand our volunteer base.
Now I know what you are thinking. If I volunteer to bake cookies for the bake sale, the next thing you know I will be asked to be on a committee and then on the Board and by Pesach I will be President of Kol Ami!!! So maybe I better not start. While there is probably a grain to truth in that thought, I would like to suggest the following. First, think about what you might like to do in terms of activity and time commitment. And second, don’t be afraid to say no if asked to do more than you are truly comfortable. And if you do have to say no, don’t feel bad, and don’t feel guilty. The bottom line is that we as a synagogue will be much better off with 300 people doing a little bit than we will be with 30 people working around the clock and burning themselves out in the process. If you are interested, please reach out to any of our Board or Staff members.
And finally, I would like to thank all of the people who have worked so hard to make this year’s High Holy Day services run so smoothly. As I am sure everyone here knows, there is a tremendous amount of work that goes into the planning and organizing of these services. Everything from the honours, to choir music, ushers, security, babysitting and parking all has to be meticulously organized. In particular I would like to thank Naomi Cohen & Errol Seef who are the Chairs of our High Holy Days Committee and committee members Eve Lypsic, Janice Prut and Annette Seef for making the flower arrangements that adorn our bimah. I would also like to thank Sean Goldman & our Kol Ami Choir for the beautiful music you have brought to our services. I have been in the building quite a bit this summer and it seem that every time I drop in you are practicing. Your dedication and effort is truly appreciated. And last but not least thank you to our professional staff, Rabbi Streiffer, our cantorial soloist Rachel Shubert, office manager Ella Mendelovitz, Judy Silver and Lois Zoltak for managing our children’s program and all of the other volunteer members that have participated in making these services so meaningful.
On behalf of the Board and myself, I wish you all a happy, healthy and sweet New Year. Shana Tova.
Mark Wolpert
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on Sunday, 23 August 2015.
To honour our brave heroes and continue a proud tradition of service to our country and to the Jewish Community by preserving the memories of patriotic service performed by Jewish men and women
The Jewish Brigade was a member of the Great War Association in the 1920's and become a charter of Jewish Veteran's Branch of the Royal Canadian legion in 1934. In the mid' 40s the Jewish Brigade officially became General Wingate Branch, to honour a distinguished British Army officer who become a Zionist after he arrived in Palestine in 1936. The Branch is located at the Zionist Centre on 788 Marlee Avenue Toronto.
Usually on the last Sunday morning of every month, each veteran member is collected from their home by a young Jewish volunteer, and taken to the General Wingate 256 Legion Branch, where they join a branch meeting. The Legion warmly welcomes a different host each month, but the young volunteers will be assigned to the same veteran member.
This means that over the months and years, young Jewish volunteers and member develop a friendship with brave surviving warriors, as our President Jerry Rosenberg said "Young people have to feel that they are part of the ongoing story, if we can do that, it will give them a sense of belonging. The desire to learn, to go back and read what happened in the ancient history of our Jewish people as they progressed through the centuries ... then they would simply be carrying on a continuing story."
Volunteering is not only limited to driving members to Legion meetings and helping with the Poppy Campaign, also by making regular phone calls to them or simply popping around for a chat. Helping them with their errands such as shopping, taking them to the bank or post office etc.(if required).
President
General Wingate Branch 256
Contact Number
Sgt-at-Arms Stephen Stepic
Phone: 647-975-4780
email: stephen.avro105@gmail.com
hunger in our midst
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on Sunday, 23 August 2015.
by Marleine Kay
Kol Ami…..
Helping to repair the world
…..one Mitzvah at a time
For every time that we have tugged at our waistbands after a hearty meal and joyfully proclaimed that we are “totally stuffed”, a Canadian child has cried with hunger, a mother’s heart has sunk knowing she cannot feed her children and somewhere on the planet a person has died of malnutrition.
This is 2015 and we live in a world of plenty yet,
- approximately 805 million people worldwide, most of them in developing countries, do not have enough to eat
- 1 in 4 children in the world are physically and/or cognitively underdeveloped due to malnutrition
- nearly half (45%) of deaths of children under 5 are caused by poor nutrition
- in Canada alone each month, close to 850,000 Canadians are assisted by food banks, and 36.4% of those helped are children and youth
WHAT CAN WE DO?
As a congregation we cannot solve world hunger issues or feed every hungry person in Canada, but we can make a difference on Yom Kippur by helping to fill the food bins from Vaughan Food Bank to capacity and then some more. The bins will be placed in the foyer as usual. Please be as kind and generous as possible. A few extra non-perishable items added to your weekly grocery shopping, from now until Yom Kippur, will help to feed a struggling hungry family here on our very own doorstep.
SUGGESTED ITEMS
- tinned salmon and tuna
- various types of tinned beans; peas; tinned protein etc.
- pasta and pasta sauces; Mac Cheese
- rice, quinoa, barley, oats, dried legumes etc.
- tinned fruit; tinned milk
- baby food
- cat and dog food
Because we are Kol Ami, together we CAN make a difference
a message from the president
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on Sunday, 23 August 2015.
On behalf of Board and myself, I would like to welcome back to Kol Ami all of our returning members and offer a warm welcome to our new members. I look forward to seeing you at our upcoming Rosh Hashanah services.
As we welcome the new year and go through the process of personal reflection during the High Holy Days, please consider participating in some of the wonderful programming offered at Kol Ami. We now offer three regularly scheduled opportunities for you to expand your knowledge of Judaism; our weekly and lively Torah study, our monthly Torah and Sushi lunch (now studying Maimonides) or our new Thursday morning program – Chai Mitzvah. Perhaps these programs are not to your liking but you are inspired by the wonderful music of our choir and love to sing. If so, consider joining them as our choir regularly hold auditions and would love to welcome new members, or if you would rather sit back and experience more great music, please join us for our monthly Rock Shabbat service. Our professional and lay leaders are constantly looking for ways to help you experience Judaism in ways that are meaningful to you; if there is something you are looking for please reach out to a member of the Board or to the Rabbi with your ideas.
In the weeks prior to Rosh Hashanah you should be hearing from a member of our Board to wish you and your family Shana Tova. It is the goal of our Board to be in regular contact with our members throughout the year to advise of upcoming events and to be available to discuss any open issues. In an effort to build relationships with our members, a specific Board member has been assigned to you for the year. This is a point of contact for you if you require anything from the Temple leadership. We look forward to discussing your ideas, requests and concerns throughout this year.
Wishing you and your family a happy, healthy and sweet New Year.
Shana Tova,
Mark Wolpert
simcha baskets - a beautiful way to share your happy day
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on Sunday, 21 June 2015.
By Marleine Kay
Many families celebrating a simcha spend fortunes on elaborate centerpieces that soon fade, are quickly forgotten and in essence do not truly highlight the spirit of the Mensch being honoured.
At Kol Ami we can take a different approach to celebrating a Bat/Bar Mitzvah, or a birthday celebration or simcha of any kind with our unique Simcha Baskets, which portray a strong message of love and giving back.
Kol Ami’s beautiful baskets are used as table centerpieces. They are decorative, colourful and so meaningful. Beautifully wrapped and decorated, they contain seasonal items suitable for our growing homeless population.
We create 2-seasonal baskets, one for spring/summer and one for fall/winter. For example fall/winter baskets will contain warm socks, hats, gloves, scarves, toiletries, drinks, protein bars and snack food items.
At the end of the simcha the baskets are dismantled, and the items will be given out to street youth in the spring/summer months and to the Out of The Cold program in the Fall/Winter months.
Each basket will come with a customized card with some words on why this is an important mitzvah for the specific Bat/Bar Mitzvah child, or the birthday person etc and where the contents will be going.
To think of someone in great need, while celebrating a special event in your life is a wonderful heartwarming way to “give back”, and make your special event all that more meaningful.
Baskets start at $36.00 each.
For more information please contact the office at 905 709 2620 or Rabbi Streiffer.
How YOU made a difference and helped repair our suffering world through YOUR Acts of Loving Kindness
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on Thursday, 28 May 2015.
JUNE 2014-JUNE 2015
By Marleine Kay
GARAGE SALE - in the shul car park last June Kol Ami raised enough money to send 13 orphans with AIDS to school for one year in Zimbabwe. There is no state funded education there.
YELLOW BRICK HOUSE - Each week consistently for the past 10 years, Kol Ami volunteers, a branch of social action, collect left over food at the Thornhill Farmers Market and deliver it to the Yellow Brick House women’s shelter. Rochelle Zwaigenbaum coordinates- rhrocky@hotmail.com
YOM KIPPUR FOOD BANK DRIVE – again Kol Ami filled food bins for the Vaughan Food Bank. The need for food for struggling families has risen dramatically within our community.
OUT OF THE COLD – 10 weeks of caring and sharing with our Har Zion partner. Kol Ami’s Yom Kippur Day appeal resulted in an amazing extension of the winter program. Your donated clothing was gratefully received by guests. Info at marleine@rogers.com
OUT OF THE COLD DINNER –We have the reputation of providing the best weekly dinner. The Amon Family spearheaded this annual mitzvah. Info at miriamamon@bell.net
THORNHILL FIREFIGHTER’S XMAS LUNCH – our second annual thank-you lunch was warmly received by firefighters on December 25th, only this time we provided a traditional Jewish meal.
THE KOL AMI SINGERS –talented and wonderful branch of social action, these superb performers (members of our choir) performed at the Sunnybrook Hospital Channukah party for Jewish veterans. They will soon perform at Cheltham nursing home.
MITZVAH DAY –greeting cards were decorated with inspirastional messages for Israeli soldiers; paper hamsas beautifully decorated and gift bags were assembled for residents at Cheltham nursing home; the streets looked cleaner after teams picked up trash; a delectable bake sale raised money for the Napal Relief Fund; placemat decoration for Out of The Cold program plus popcorn and a mitzvah movie all made our third annual Mitzvah Day a meanigful success. Check out the pictures below from Mitzvah Day!
CHELTHAM NURSING HOME – Annie Papernick’s brother Marty travelled a round 4 hour trip to entertain residents at Cheltham nursing home with his fantastic magic show. The residents were entralled. What a treat!
You cared and helped to add a little warmth to tragic orpahans, the homeless, marginalised and poverty-striken of our community, heroic Israeli soldiers, elderly and infirm veterans, abused women and children and brave firefighters.
Kol Hakavod, Kol Ami – YOU truly rock with G’milut Chassadim.
Mitzvah Day Photos:
a message from the president
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on Thursday, 28 May 2015.
I have been honoured to serve as Kol Ami's President for the past two years and wanted to take a moment to express what has most stood out for me during that time.
In my first year as President, I had the honour of representing Kol Ami at the URJ Biennial in San Diego. To say it was a great experience would be a gross understatement. It was transformative, uplifting, motivating and spiritually inspiring all at the same time. What I learned about the Union for Reform Judaism (URJ) and all they had to offer our congregation was of incredible value.
That Biennial stressed relational Judaism – making connections with those in our community. It is, however, a journey and not a sudden transformation. It starts with a simple act of kindness by being welcoming to each of our members and those that are just visiting. This past Shabbat I met someone that is not a member and is "just trying us on for size". At first she was very nervous to speak to me as she wasn't sure she was allowed to be there as a non-member. When I welcomed her and her daughter with open arms, her face broke out into a grand smile as she expressed her appreciation for the welcoming she received. Well, I know there are many in our community that always do the same, and indeed we are well on the way to achieving the concepts of relational Judaism by continuing to be a warm and welcoming congregation. It is each and every member of our congregation that makes a difference in making us the warmest congregation in York Region.
My second year as President was a difficult one for me on a personal level which caused me to take a few months away from the Board. During the past year, I learned a lot about the strength of our community. It was difficult for me to step back as I felt that I was letting everyone down, but then the friends and colleagues I have made at Kol Ami helped me see differently.
It started with the members of the Executive committee who were ready to step in and do whatever was needed so that I could focus on my personal life. I cannot say enough about how proud I am of this Executive. They not only took on their own duties as board members, they took over many of the functions that I as President would normally do. I want to personally thank Mark Wolpert, Craig Wolkof, Aviv Haras and Nicole Arnold whose passion for our community helped us to continue to drive programs such as the Torah restoration and many other programs. Their commitment to Kol Ami and the character of each of them makes me feel that Kol Ami will continue to have a bright future.
At the end of June, Mark Wolpert will be taking the role of President of our congregation. I have been honoured to have such a great 1st Vice President and know that I leave the Board, and Kol Ami, in great hands.
As I close, I want to stress once more, that our community is great because of each and every member. Our community thrives when all our members pull together to help with and participate in programs, and provide financial support to allow us to continue to bring amazing speakers and full services to our congregation. So come out, get involved and learn just how amazing our community is, just like I have learned.
L' Shalom
Tal Schierau
Tue, May 13 2025
15 Iyar 5785
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"Hebrew is more than the language of Israel
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Girls with Guitars - Dawn Bernstein
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