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a message from the social action committee

on Sunday, 22 November 2015.

TIKKUN OLAMKol Ami…..

Helping to repair the world

…..one Mitzvah at a time

  by Marleine Kay

 

 

KOL AMI RELIGIOUS SCHOOL & SOCIAL ACTION PRESENTS:

BE A SUPER JEW!

 

WOW! HOW?

 

DO A MITZVAH!

 

YEAH!

 

WHEN? WHERE ?

 

AT THE KOL AMI  FANTASTIC

BAKE AND BOOK SHUK

Proceeds to help support the Syrian Refugee Crisis.

Please help by baking or donating cakes, cookies and treats to sell, and by asking friends and family to donate some scrumptious baked goods. Please buy some treats too and enjoy at home for a lovely Shabbat afternoon tea.

                            

Donate excellent-condition books of all genres, for all ages. Please also restock your shelves with the marvellous books you will find.

WHEN: BOOK SALE AFTER ROCK SHABBAT, FRIDAY DECEMBER 11TH.book sale

BOOK AND BAKE SALE AFTER SHABBAT SERVICES ON SATURDAY, DECEMBER 12TH.

 

 

Please contact Marleine Kay, Social Action, at marleine@rogers.com or 905 763 1136

or

Judy Silver, Director of Education, at educator@kolami.ca

Because we are Kol Ami – together we CAN make a difference

a message from the president

on Sunday, 22 November 2015.

Two weeks ago I attended the URJ Biennial in Orlando where 5000 members of the Reform movement gathered to study, learn, pray, sing and connect with likeminded Jews from around North America. What struck me about the Biennial was how we as a small community in Thornhill, Ontario, fit in with the wider movement and how our Reform movement has so much to offer Jews living in 2015, whether they are members of a synagogue or are currently unaffiliated. We are the movement that is fighting for religious plurality in Israel, that stands for the rights of those in our community regardless of sexual orientation or identification, and the movement that is welcoming of those in our community from interfaith families.

“Audacious hospitality” is the term the URJ is using to describe our efforts to engage seekers – Jews who are unaffiliated and under-engaged – and to help them find meaning in Judaism. This past Friday I met several people who, through our Meetup advertising, decided to attend our Rock Shabbat service. They were blown away by the experience and I hope they will be inspired to attend again in the future. It is our innovative approach, the welcoming nature of our community that will attract people to Kol Ami in the future and I thank you on behalf of the leadership for helping to make these newcomers to Kol Ami feel welcome.

If you would like to learn more about our movement I encourage you to watch the keynote speech given by Rick Jacobs, the URJ President to the attendees of the Biennial. 

L’Shalom,

Mark.

mitzvah day - may 2015

on Sunday, 26 April 2015.

BY MARLEINE KAY

Hiding from the Nazis and locked in a tiny attic space with her family, 13 year old Anne Frank penned these immortal words "no one has ever become poor by giving”. Her insightful words have enriched the lives of generations of children and adults by inspiring them to perform mitzvot to help alleviate the suffering of our world family.

 

Once again, on May 9th we come together as a loving Kol Ami religious school and congregation to participate in some heart-warming mitzvot. We will help to bring happiness and send messages of hope and love to the elderly, the infirm, the homeless and the brave ones who defend Israel.

 

Kicking off at 8:45 a.m. with coffee and juice in the gym, there will be a wide variety of hands-on Mitzvah Projects for the school kids, parents and congregants alike.

 

BAKE SALE - absolutely scrumptious cakes and treats for sale. Proceeds will benefit several charities, including the Yellow Brick House Shelter for abused women and their children, Mazon, the Jewish response to hunger, and guide dogs for the blind in Israel. Donations of either home baked goods or shop-bought (nut free and no animal fat) would also be greatly appreciated.

 

PLACE MAT DECORATION - for the tables at the Out of The Cold dinner at Har Zion. Kol Ami partners with Har Zion every winter for 10 weeks. Homeless and the marginalized within the GTA seek a meal, warm clothing, comfort and an overnight stay for many. The placemats will give guests a homey feeling as they enjoy their meal. Decorate the mats and write encouraging meaningful notes on them. Mats will be laminated later on.

 

HASMA DECORATION – show your artistic talent! These Hasmas will bring joy to the elderly residents living at Lifestyles Cheltenham Nursing Home. Many residents are lonely and this small token of your loving kindness will mean so much to them.

 

GREETING CARDS FOR ISRAELI SOLDIERS – decorate them and write inspiring messages to thank these brave men and women for keeping EretzYisrael safe.

 

MITZVAH MOVIE AND POPCORN - this movie has been written, directed and performed by Kol Ami’s Religious School Children. It’s amazing!

Only with YOUR participation can we truly make this event rock

and bring beautiful healing light into our world

Please bring some non-perishable food items that can be donated to the Food Bank.

Shabbat services follow at 10.30 a.m. -  no Torah study that morning

 a message from the second vice president

on Tuesday, 03 March 2015.

Its 7:00am on a freezing cold February morning at Toronto Pearson Airport. However, excitement and warmth are in the air as teens say goodbye to their parents and anxiously wait to board their flight to Atlanta, Georgia, to attend the NFTY Convention. Our Kol Ami kids were joined by many of their NFTY friends from the region and were part of a one thousand strong delegation that attended the convention. Kol Ami has not sent any youth to the NFTY convention in many years but this year were fortunate to have Jessica Franzini, Adam Schierau, Sydney Kowal, Amy Wolpert, Raffi Caruso and Hilarie Stein attend.
The kids participated in worship and song, attended a service at the home church of Martin Luther King, made friends and learned about youth empowerment, leadership, and Torah. We are all proud of the commitment and dedication our Temple youth have to Jewish Youth programming.


If you are reading this and would like to enjoy a Convention for yourself, please consider the URJ Biennial that will be held in Orlando this November. The URJ is planning to offer discounts to Temple delegations that attend and it will be beneficial to have has many people from Kol Ami attend as possible. As was stated in a recent URJ Webinar, "when an individual attends Biennial, it benefits the individual, when a delegation attends, it benefits the entire congregation".

L'Shalom,

Mark Wolpert

it's more than just adult bar/bat mitzvah

on Wednesday, 28 January 2015.

BY PETER DIAMANT

There are as many reasons why the participants in our class did not have a Bar or Bat Mitzvah as there are members in the group. A few of us have considerable knowledge of our traditions and customs and others very little. Each of us walked in with trepidation and even a certain amount of guilt, that as adults we should know a lot more than we do. However, we have quickly learned that others in the group are exactly in the same position. As a result, the atmosphere is incredibly supportive and relaxed. No question is too simple, no gap in our knowledge too embarrassing. Rabbi Streiffer and Shoshi's lecture plan is interesting and as always, each lecture very well prepared. Some of the topics we are covering are: 'Jewish Texts – People of What Book?' where we are learning about the Torah, Haftarah, Talmud and other "books". Future units cover 'Reform Jewish Choices',' Taking the Festivals to the Next Level', The Siddur and more. Each class is capped off with a Hebrew lesson. As is typical of all learning experiences at Kol Ami, the atmosphere is informal, inviting a lot of questions. We are not even half way through the course but we are already beginning to see the benefits. We have a better understanding of the historical context of each topic, are better able to 'wrap our heads' around the reasons behind certain traditions or teachings. Most importantly, we are beginning to feel more comfortable – in the synagogue, at services, with our own beliefs, our own Judaism. So will we see a few Adult Bar/Bat Mitzvahs next year? Stay tuned... And here comes the usual regret – I wish we had a class like this a few decades ago. Well, better late than ever.

a message from the second vice president

on Monday, 29 December 2014. 

January is often a time of resolutions. We take stock, looking at who we were last year, comparing it with who and what we want to be. Then we make resolutions that get us closer to this ideal. Your Kol Ami leadership is doing the same thing. We’re not doing it because it’s the turn of the secular year. We’re doing it so we can continue to get closer to the ideal community. The first step is articulating what this ideal community is. These conversations took place frequently over the fall (even when we weren’t specifically aware that we were having them). We talked about what kind of school we want to have. We talked about how we want to welcome people when they enter our building, whether they are new to our community or have been attending services for years. We talked about how we want to strengthen our community, largely by building on all the amazing things we do – engaged learning at all age levels; ritual practice that is accessible to people of many different backgrounds and levels of education; music that gets us moving and stirs our souls. 

The elephant that is often in the background of all of these discussions is financial stability. How do we make sure we are financially sustainable? How do we make sure that our finances are transparent and accessible? While all the work that I’ve discussed above is critical to answering those questions in broader ways, the first quarter of 2015 is devoted in many ways to answering these questions more specifically. In February, our Finance Committee will lead a Town Hall that will be devoted to providing the financial update that was promised at last June’s Annual General Meeting. Of equal importance, is the work that is being conducted by our Dues Task Force, led by David Katz and overseen by the Finance Committee. This Task Force is looking at dues models across North America, learning best practices and helping to determine whether our current model is serving us best. They will report to the Board in late Spring. 

There’s a lot going on! If you have questions or want to get more involved in any of these activities please don’t hesitate to contact me at gabnick2004@yahoo.ca. We have so much to be proud of. We received positive feedback all through High Holidays and the fall about what a warm, welcoming place we are. I’m so delighted to be a part of this community. 
L’shalom,
Nicole Arnold

strengthening our community with nicole arnold

on Wednesday, 29 October 2014.

“Why do I have to go to Hebrew School? Can’t I just sleep in?” Put that to a melody of your choosing and you’ll hear the song that frequently opens our Saturday mornings. The details of our response to Matt vary, but the essence of remains the same – we want you to feel part of our Jewish community. Why is this important? What does our community represent? Community is support – in good times and hard times, a group of people to perform ritual with, peers to study with and to perform good deeds. Really, a group in which to practice being the best people that we want to be. Community also develops a sense of identity, a feeling of connection and in special moments a true sense of coming home. None of this transpires overnight, it evolves over time -- sometimes effortlessly and other times because structures and processes are in place. Enter the Relationship Committee!


The Relationship Committee was formed to help strengthen our community. You can see evidence of the Committee’s work already: the conversations that Rabbi Streiffer initiated during the High Holidays; shifting from our New Member Appreciation Luncheon to a Member Appreciation Luncheon; and our well attended Montana’s dinner after the October Rock Shabbat service. There’s more to come. We want to ensure that no one is left on the sidelines at services or programs and that every person who comes into Kol Ami feels welcomed and engaged. We want our community to be here for everyone who needs it -- whether that is service attendance, comfort when illness strikes or asking a question about ritual.
Do you want to join the Relationship Committee? Contact Nicole Arnold at gabnick2004@yahoo.ca. Do you have ideas or feedback? Please share how you think we can make our community even stronger.

out of the cold program

on Saturday, 29 November 2014. 

BY MARLEINE KAY

If you offer your compassion to the hungry and satisfy the famished creature, then shall your light shine in darkness.” –Isaiah 58:10

Mosaic Interfaith Out of the Cold (OOTC) Programs provide hospitality and emergency shelter in York Region to the homeless or those in need of food and clothing. Overnight shelters are operated on different nights of the week from November to March by various communities. Over the years, Kol Ami has become increasingly involved by partnering with Temple Har Zion (THZ) who host Wednesday evenings.

On average 70-120+ guests arrive by shuttle bus and volunteer cars to enjoy a hearty 3 course meal, bingo, an art class run by Kolamite Melanie Samara, and a chance to “shop” for free clothing and toiletry items. Over 20 homeless guests sleep overnight and awaken to breakfast and a packed lunch.

This Yom Kippur appeal, Kol Ami raised $3,500.00 for OOTC. WOW! This money helps pay for food, long johns, underwear, socks, gloves, toiletries, etc. Since government funding was slashed by 30%, Kol Ami has positively enhanced the program.

HOW YOU CAN HELP

  • Volunteer to help set up or clear away at THZ, serve meals or help guests with clothing.
  • Help cook part of the Kol Ami sponsored OOTC dinner for December 17th. Please contact Miriam Amon at miriamamon@bell.net. The Amon family are the originators and organizers of this wonderful mitzvah.
  • Help source URGENTLY NEEDED items:
    • Men’s boots size 12 triple D fitting plus sizes 10-13.
    •  Ladies boots all sizes
    •  Men and women’s coats 2XL and 3XL. Guests literally arrive with open torn shoes and coats.

Volunteering with OOTC is also about listening and caring. For those of us who volunteer every week, we get to really know the guests year after year. One young teenage mother tearfully threw her arms around Kolamite Eva Kay and thanked her for the advice on how to reconcile with her estranged mother. It worked! Kolamite Andie Wilson brings clothing each week to suit specific guest sizes.

Volunteering with OOTC tends to make one feel humble and very touched. It makes the words of Modim Anachnu Lach all that sweeter and meaningful- and it lets us live Isaiah 58:10.

For additional information on OOTC please contact, ASAP, Marleine Kay, Social Action Co-Chair at 905 763 1136 or marleine@rogers.com

Because we are Kol Ami, TOGETHER we CAN make a difference

a message from the first vice president

on Saturday, 29 November 2014.

Last weekend our family, along with many others from Kol Ami, said goodbye to our very excited teens as they headed to NFTY’s Fall Kallah in Pennsylvania for a fun weekend of programming, workshops, services and reconnecting with friends. This of course was followed by a Sunday return home of very tired, hungry, grumpy kids with lots of dirty laundry in tow. As parents and as a community we can be thankful for two things. First, that Kallah was last weekend and before the recent snowstorms in Buffalo and second that we have so many of our kids involved in the youth group and participating in these events.


In February of next year, a large contingent of Kol Ami youth will be attending the NFTY Convention in Atlanta. This conference will bring over a thousand Reform youth together from all over North America for a five day celebration. It will help our teens develop new skills, hear different perspectives and give our kids the leadership skills that they can bring back to Kol Ami and share with our community. While it is a little nerve wracking for parents that our teens will be travelling alone to Atlanta, it is also very exciting that five kids (so far) from Kol Ami will attend.


As you can imagine, attendance in these youth events does come with a cost and we are fortunate at Kol Ami that The Nancy Wechsler Youth Scholarship Fund, and the Rabbi’s Discretionary Fund are available to help offset some of the expenses associated with Weekend Retreats, Conventions and Camp. As we head to the end of the calendar year, once again Kol Ami will be asking members to participate in our year end appeal. The focus this year will be on the funds that support our successful youth programming and I encourage you to participate as we work toward developing the leaders of tomorrow.

B’Shalom,

Mark Wolpert

taste of judaism - are you curious

on Wednesday, 12 November 2014.

Wednesday evenings-November 12, 19, and 26 at 6pm

What do Jews believe about God?
Are bagels and lox really Jewish food?
How do the Jewish denominations differ?

These questions and more will be answered as Kol Amioffers a chance for those who are “curious” to come and learn about Judaism. The free three-part course, called “A Taste of Judaism: Are you Curious,” will explore the modern Jewish take on spirituality, values, and community.

The “Taste of Judaism” program has attracted more than 70,000 participants across North America over the last 15 years. It is designed for “beginners” – Jewish or not – to explore matters of Jewish faith and history.

Rabbi Micah Streiffer will be teaching the class and explained:

“There is absolutely no expectation of prior knowledge. Participants come from all kinds of backgrounds, and they come to learn for all kinds of reasons. Some are interested in becoming Jewish. Others are married to or dating Jews. Still others are exploring the Jewish roots of their Christianity. All are welcome!”

The classes are being offered on Wednesday evenings November 12, 19, and 26 at 6 pm, at Kol Ami. For more information or to register to attend call Ella Mendelovitz at 905-709-2620 x3 or admin@kolami.ca. The program is sponsored by the Union for Reform Judaism.

 

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